Monday, September 28, 2009

Buffalo Stance

Happiness is finally walking into a local Chicago area Subway and finding out they have Buffalo Chicken on their menu.    I've only been waiting three years to try that sub.   It's available for a limited time so of course the minute I saw it, I had to try it.    So after the long wait, was it worth it you say?   It was good, not the best.    But I was satiated.

Speaking of Buffalo Stance....check out this classic song from the 80's.:

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Wednesday, September 23, 2009

Promiscuous Boy

Promiscuous - Nelly Furtado (with Timbaland)

Nelly: Am i throwin' you off?
Timbs: Nope
N: Didn’t think so

Verse 1
T: How you doin’ young lady
The feeling that you're giving really drives me crazy
You don’t have to play about the joke
I was lost with the words first time that we spoke

N: If you looking for a girl that’ll treat you right
If you lookin’ for her in the day time with the light

T: You might be the type if I play my cards right
I'll find out by the end of the night

N: You expect me to just let you hit it
But will you still respect me if you git it

T: All I can do is try, gimme one chance
What’s the problem I don’t see no ring on your hand

T: I be the first to admit it, I’m curious about you, you seem so innocent

N: You wanna get in my world, get lost in it
Boy I’m tired of running, lets walk for a minute

T: Promiscuous girl
Wherever you are
Im' all alone
And it's you that I want

N: Promiscuous boy
You already know
That I’m all yours
What you waiting for?

T: Promiscuous girl
You're teasing me
You know what I want
And I got what you need

N: Promiscuous boy
Let's get to the point
Cause we're on a roll
Are you ready?

Verse 2
N: Roses are red
Some diamonds are blue
Chivalry is dead,
But you're still kinda cute

T: Hey! I can't keep my mind off you
who you with, do you mind if I come through

N: I’m out of this world come with me to my planet
Get you on my level do you think that you can handle it?

T: They call me Thomas
last name Crown
Recognize game
I'm a lay mine's down

N: I'm a big girl I can handle myself
But if I get lonely I’ma need your help
Pay attention to me I don't talk for my health

T: I want you on my team
N: So does everybody else.
T: *shit*

T: Baby we can keep it on the low
Let your guard down ain’t nobody gotta know
If you with it girl I know a place we can go

N: What kind of girl do you take me for?

Repeat Chorus

T: Don't be mad, don't get mean
N: Don't get mad, don't be mean

T: Hey! Don't be mad, don't get mean
N: Don't get mad, don't be mean

T: Wait! I don't mean no harm
I can see you with my t-shirt on

N: I can see you with nothing on
feeling on me before you bring that on

T: Bring that on?
N: You know what I mean

T: Girl, I’m a freak you shouldn't say those things

N: I’m only trying to get inside your brain
To see if you can work me the way you say

T: It's okay, it's alright
I got something that you gon' like

N: Hey is that the truth or are you talking trash
Is your game M.V.P. like Steve Nash

Repeat Chorus

Outro(Repeated till fade)
N: eh o ey o

Remember Midas? He was the guy that bought out some of the freak out of me, especially when we were involved in 3-ways. Well we've been having this Nelly Furtado/Timbaland volleyball game match for a few months now. Several times he would text me and play the role of Timbs basically asking for sex (2-ways, 3-ways) and like Nelly I would tease him but ultimately deny him. This happened on three or four separate occasions. Once he even offered to come over to my place with another guy. He had expressed a phobia before about having sex with me at my place because I wasn't as neat as he was. He must've been really horny that day.

So actually a month ago he finally upped his game a bit and invited me for breakfast. At the very beginning of our trysts we used to go to breakfast either before or after the sex. But later on it turned into just sex. So him inviting me for breakfast bought me back to those beginning days. I went to breakfast with the intentions of not having sex with him. It was my first time seeing him in nearly four months. He was as hot as I remembered.

So I arrive at his place. To my surprise he was dressed and ready to go to breakfast. So we went and caught up on our lives. I told him about work and some of my latest encounters with guys. He in turn talked about his life. We really had a good time and I found myself laughing a lot. So afterwards we drive back to his place. I'm bidding my farewell to Midas and he grabs my arm and goes 'no you don't'. He then started putting his hands around my waist. Mind you this was happening outside of his apartment. Midas definitely had no shame in his game. So not wanting to make a scene I go with him inside his apartment building.

So you know what happens next. Hard as I resisted, Midas was looking too damn good and my defenses were weakened. I put up a good fight for 15 minutes but finally I gave in. We watched TV for a couple hours before eventually he needed to run an errand and I needed to head back.

Since then we've had a couple more Promiscuous Boy/Boy rounds. Yesterday's round however was really interesting. Or maybe not. He was at an all day conference near my house and wanted to come over and 'rape' me. We were going back and forth and he shocked me by texting that he missed me. The rest of the texts went like so:

Me: U miss the sex right?

Midas: You and how we are together.

Me: I don't mean to throw 20 questions at u but how are we together outside of the fabulous sex?

Midas: The way we used to talk.

Me: Yes I miss that too.

Me: I wish you liked hanging out with me more.

Midas: So you want to come to a 4 sum there is a pig bottom and I can watch you fuck?

Midas: Give it time and we can hang.

Me: Sorry got caught up in group lunch. Speaking of groups I'm not really interested in group sex or threesomes these days. Thanks for asking me.

Midas: Sad...Would have like to see you in action...What can I do to change your mind?

Me: Spend more time with me one on one. Not just sex. I enjoyed that night when we went to Whole Foods and Jewel and BBB getting your mc products. I liked when you came over and we went to Aurora outlet. Breakfast, dinners (u still haven't cooked for me yet. LOL) I know all that stuff takes time.

Me: In short, invest in me!

Midas: So how do we balance your need and my need?

Me: That is a good question. I know you have a lot going on with work, life, friends, and your own personal time. Maybe we start with a date.

That's where it ended. Where will it go next? Stay tuned.

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Saturday, September 19, 2009

Get Up Now!

I don't watch the Bad Girls Club but I ran across this YouTube video when finding out that one of the girls was going to be on the new season of Celebrity Fit Club. Rumor has it that Whitney's former King of R&B is going to be on the show as well. If the video is any indication, CFC is one not to be missed. Imagine her having to go without some chicken wings. The craziness will ensue. Till my next blog....enjoy!


Monday, September 07, 2009

Labor For Love

I was supposed to be home in Detroit for the holiday weekend. A combination of work and laziness kept me from going home. But not to worry I plan on going home next weekend. I took Friday and Monday off work to do so. I could hear in my Dad's voice his disappointment when I told him I wasn't coming. I still am amazed even years later on how much mellow my Dad's become as he's gotten older.

Parents have their own way of making their kids feel guilty. At least my parents have that effect on me. But I do love my parents so I'll definitely pay a visit.

So Hemingway I spent most of my weekend playing email, phone, and text tag with this hottie I chatted with on one of my social network sites. This past Friday was the first time I chatted with him. He had a nude picture of his nicely sculpted torso (minus his face) and his erect peewee. When I sent him a message complimenting his bod, I honestly didn't expect a response. But we exchanged emails and eventually traded numbers. He actually invited me to hang out with his friends at a bar. I declined since I was having one of my "ant-e-social" moments (at least in real life, not online). I made the suggestion that we go out bowling (hee...the irony) on Saturday. I suggested 1 PM but HotRod had a feeling he'd be hanging out real late and opted for 4PM. He said he'd call Saturday.

So Saturday comes and I don't get a call by afternoon. I decided to call him around 2pm but he sounded horrible. He told me that he stayed out till 5:30AM. Not only that but he was suffering from a huge hangover after downing several vodka and juice drinks. HotRod felt he'd be himself if we hung out early evening instead. I was skeptical but I went along with it.

Around 7:45 I got tired of waiting so I texted him and said I was making dinner for myself. He stated he was still lying in bed and didn't feel good. We texted back and forth for a bit and then we said our goodbyes for the day.

So yesterday (09/06) afternoon against my better sense I called HotRod. I got his voicemail. Twenty minutes later he sent me a text. We chatted back and forth and he apoligized for Saturday. I apologized for Friday. So I asked if he wanted to meet and he agreed to do so. We decided to meet around 4:30 for bowling and dinner.

HotRod truly was a hot rod, hence my nickname for him. He wore some form fitting blue jeans and a baseball shirt that complimented his upper body well. At 30 years old and 190 pounds, he's younger than the guys I've typically dated. He's also of Polish descent and I enjoyed hearing his accent.

He mentioned that he was a cop (and yeah he has cuffs for if we get naughty...*LOL*) so it surprised me to hear another accent coming out. It was the so-called "gay" accent. However it's a battle between his polish and gay accent with nice results. He also had a bit of a walk to him. However I was so attracted to him that I honestly didn't care.

I couldn't stop looking at him whenever it was his turn to bowl. His clothes definitely highlighted his muscular physique and I had images of his naked body in my head. We bowled a total of 4 games.

We had agreed to go to dinner afterward but it was nice knowing that neither one of us were anxious to end the date early. He got in my car and we drove to a Chinese restaurant fifteen minutes away.

Dinner was really nice and we got to know a few things more about each other. He's a Scorpio (my ex Rock is also one) so that may be interesting...again. Similar to my friend Eugene, he says what's on his mind and it doesn't matter at the time if he's hurting that person's feelings. He says in that regard that he's honest to a fault. If it's something that he truly feels, he will let it out. As I've mentioned in relation to Eugene, that's a double edge sword for me. On the one hand it's better to hear the truth but there are times when the truth can't be handled. During those times I can't handle the truth, I would get pissy but then it would force me to think. Ultimately it is better to be straightforward than to tell half-truths. It's something that I'm working to do more of.

His last relationship also lasted for two years, similar to mine. I didn't ask why it ended. I'll save that for another time.

Before I knew it dinner was over. I drove us back to the bowling alley and back to his car. We both expressed how much we enjoyed the date. There was this awkward moment where we weren't sure what the other person wanted to do. I really wanted to kiss HotRod and was trying to do all kind of nonverbal (yeah yeah yeah...straightforward honest, right ....*LOL*) actions to express that. I'm not sure if HotRod even noticed those but he leaned over towards me and I leaned to him and we exchanged an electric kiss.

It was a really nice end to a great date. I haven't had a date where things didn't end after a make out session at someone's place. It felt like a hetero date in a way. If we stay true to the hetero pattern, our third date should be the 'sex date'. Woo hoo!

The best thing about his kiss. I didn't taste any cigarette breath like I did with Colin. Digressing from HotRod for a few sentences (okay probably a paragraph or two...*LOL*)

Speaking of Colin, it appears he's officially written me off. The last correspondence I had with Colin was an email telling me his phone had been stolen from the gym. It just so happened that around that time he was also heading out to Vegas with some friends. He wanted me to give him my number so that he can add me back. I gave it to him but I haven't heard a peep from him. It's almost a month now since that email. I know he's alive because I see him logged on my social network site all the time.

I'm sure his friends (who all smoke) probably reminded him that I wasn't a big fan of the smoking. I really harped on it a few times and I'm sure they mentioned that if things were going anywhere, that would be an issue. Not to mention the distance thing would be major. I kinda wish Colin and I had a frank conversation about our feelings instead of avoiding the issue. But it's just as well.

Back to HotRod, so you know I called Eugene after our date was over to spill the tea. While Eugene and I were chatting, HotRod sent me a text telling me that I was very handsome. I told him he was a stud. While talking to Eugene, I was texting back and forth with HotRod. So we'll see where this one goes.

I also shared my date news with Sally who has some potential great news of her own. Let's just say she's been hunting for a job related to her field for almost two years now and it's possible that the search may soon be over. She's been in talks with a manager of a government contract firm in Virginia. Yeah my #1 girl may be soon leaving Chicago. I'm sad by the possibility but at the same time the Virgina/DC/Maryland area is where she wants to be. Plus I can always visit her. She also reconnected with an old love that lives in the area and things seem to be really taking off there. So it's almost like work and love may be converging for Sally. Please pray for her that she gets this blessing.

Back to me....Incidentally I have another date planned later in the week with another guy (in another state...Missouri so at least it's closer than Massaschusetts). I could hear the groans already...*LOL*. I'll share that story another time.

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