Saturday, January 31, 2009

Hit The 3-Way

Or maybe I should title this entry Nasty News 2...*LOL*.

I knew going into 2009 that I was planning on having a wild ride. Little did I know two Wednesdays ago was going to be one of those times.

It started out with a crazy project day at work. But at least I was working from home that day, like I normally do on Wednesdays. I was just coming off my latest cleanse and days earlier was sharing with Midas some of the details surrounding what ingredients were needed to do it.

Midas actually expressed interest in doing the cleanse for himself and we made an evening date to run to various stores to obtain the lemons, cayenne, maple syrup, and sea salt.

So this date of course was made on Wednesday. So I swing to his place and we then make our way first to Whole Foods then to Jewels and for good measure, the last stop was Bed Bath and Beyond. Those trips for the most part were uneventful save a solicitor using some kids (not sure they were his) to get Midas to donate to some charity that may or may not be bogus and later on a hottie night guard at BB&B that both Midas and I were salivating over.

So we get back to his place and kind of talk for a bit and he mentions that his friend Damien was swinging by for a three way. Midas had mentioned to me before that he does enjoy a good three way and has half-joked (I thought) with me in the past about having one with me.

I was thinking at first he was joking again but minutes later I heard a knock on his door. I remembered my heart skipping a beat as I watched Midas walk towards the door. I nervously gulped as Damien and Midas walked back towards the entertainment room. After Midas took Damien's coat, I sheepishly greeted Damien before he sat down in the middle of the carpet. Moments later Midas asked us if we wanted something to drink. I was like...'hell yes' as I requested some red wine (so gay...*LOL*).

I was quietly sizing Damien up as Midas and he were conversing. Damien was a mere 25 years old. He was a bit husky and short (about 5'7 I'd say). He looked younger than his 25 years. I was thinking about my dilly dallies with men over the years and only recalled one guy around 24 that I've had relations with (I was 32 at the time). Everyone else I've had was typically in their 30s or 40s, though I had one hot 50 year old (even though he lied and said he was 37).

I would occasionally chime in a word or two during their conversations, which included a discussion about the whole Flavor of Love industry on VH-1 and how it's spawned off so many other shows.

But Hemingway I felt a bit surreal, not believing that I would actually be participating in my very first three way. I can't say that I didn't fantasize about it before, though in my fantasy I usually had two studly muscle hunks. But you can't get everything you want.

In a funny twist of fate, I actually got a text message in the middle of our three way ... conversation from Rock. I smiled to myself as I read his greeting imagining his reaction if he knew what I was moments away from doing.

I went to get more wine and then cracked up at the label. It had the words 'Ménage à trois', you know Love For 3. Yeah Midas definitely planned this in advance.

Years ago I would've been singing an old Angela Winbush side song going...'Ménage à trois, love for 3. Love for 3 is not for me. Why can't one lady (man) be enough?' But a couple glasses of Ménage à trois later, I was all 'Love for 3 is just the ticket for me'.

But the loving was going have to be put on hold. Apparently some work issue on this nightmarish project was so distressing my user that he insisted on having a 10:45 PM meeting. I saw that my onshore co-ordinator was beeping me 911 on that. So I wound up going in another room to make the conference call.

I was so buzzed but had to do my best to keep my composure during the meeting. Luckily most of the talking was done by one of the offshore folks and my user, so I didn't have to talk much but just take notes. The call took nearly an hour.

So Hemingway I finally got done with the call and headed out of the room to pee. Next thing I know I see Midas and Damien butter ball naked looking at profiles on A4A. I didn't even want to know what they were doing while I was in my conference.

I pissed and then remained in the bathroom for a minute longer wondering if I should leave. As I finally left the room, they both were still focused on A4A and I was still thinking of making a hasty retreat. The only problem was my coat was on the chair that both guys were leaning against. Plus I was still coming off my buzz. So I parked myself on a nearby sofa rolling my eyes at my predicament.

About two minutes later Midas came up to me all kissy-kissy. Damien stood off by the computer still. Initially it felt weird and I was resisting Midas's advances. I was thinking did I really want to do this. The thing is I know that Midas and I aren't boyfriend/boyfriend (and I'm not sure where things are going since I know it's a bit soon to even think about that coming off of my relationship with Rock) but I felt a twinge of jealousy seeing the two of them naked together and likely doing other things while I was in my conference. Part of me was pissed that I had to share Midas with another guy. (Come on Angela...take it away with that song girl.) But Midas was so sexy and was making me feel so good that I eventually gave in and slowly stripped down to only my underwear and a jock strap that I was wearing earlier.

Eventually Damien joined us (that took me a minute to get used to) and the three of us were pawing and making out with each other. It turned out that I was the lone bottom so that turned out to be the makings of a wild evening.

It may sound weird but while I was being worked over (thanks Whitney for that term) by Damien, I felt closer to Midas as the two of us were wildly kissing and making out. Eventually Midas took his turn working me over as Damien and I made out. There was all kinds of sucking and kissing and exchanges going on between the three of us and eventually it all culminated into some explosive endings.

Yeah I needed a cigarette.

Damien left moments later and Midas and I sat down and basically talked about the experience. Midas really made me feel at ease while doing so. I was feeling better and knowing that I had another early morning conference call, I made my way home early that Thursday with a huge smile on my face.

Even though I fantasized about it, I never thought I'd actually have it be a reality. I guess it was so good that Midas wants us all to hook up again, possibly tonight. I'm such a freak that I think I may just go for it. Peace out.

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Saturday, January 24, 2009

Nasty News

I was disturbed to read online the story about a student at Virginia Tech who was found beheaded by another student. Apparently it happened in a public cafe and with an ordinary kitchen knife in front of several witnesses. To my surprise, I saw the news item on Fox news (because they're not biased there...*LOL*) website. I stumbled up on that story after my bff Eugene told me about another disgusting story where a man abandoned 300 rats (story I found since then reduced number to 280 rats) on the side of the road. They were trapped in fish tanks for several days and apparently it became a game of survival of the fittest when the rats started eating each other in desperation.

But back to the Virginia Tech beheading. The university unfortunately was also the sight of a major massacre that occured in April 2007 where over 32 people lost their lives needlessly.

Eugene, himself having a brief tenure at Virgina Tech before moving to Los Angeles, hadn't heard about the news. He was wondering why none of the major networks haven't announced it on any of their news programs. He basically theorized that the news media was basically protecting Virginia Tech's reputation by not sharing the story.

Virginia Tech was very much heavily scrutinized during the massacre shooting. Another major story of a killing would likely cripple it further. But what Eugene couldn't figure out was if the coverup is a mutual thing between V-Tech and the networks or if V-Tech made some kind of arrangement to keep the story out and the media agreed.

Guess we'll never know.

P.S. Midas and I are just enjoying each other and taking things slow. I don't necessarily want to jump quickly into another relationship and I don't get the impression he does either. I'm not sure if it'll go there, though he would definitely be a good catch if it happens.

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Wednesday, January 07, 2009

The Midas Touch

HAPPY 2009 Everyone!!!

Another year, another chance for renewal. It's that time of year when a lot of us make resolutions to do things differently this year. In my case it's no different. I have the typical resolutions to continue to stay healthy and trying to enjoy life even more. I've slipped a bit on my working out sessions but I'm working to try and get those back on track, much like everyone else around this time. I'm actually doing yet another cleanse. I'm about halfway done with it.

I'm back on the dating scene as well. Actually there's this guy that I've chatted with and befriended a few months back that I hooked up with on New Year's Day. On paper, he's (let's call him Midas) got a lot of qualities that I like. Lookswise Midas is like an Adonis. He's 6-foot, 295 lbs. He is one of those guys that carries his weight very well. Sort of like Young MC when he made his appearance on Celebrity Fit Club a few years back. Young MC if I recall was 275 pounds but IMHO looked very hot. Midas has very broad shoulders, nice big hands, nicely shaped thighs and calves. His face is very handsome as well. Personality wise, Midas seems to have a heart of gold. In our conversations, he comes across as being the one that tends to help his friends out in a bind. He's mentioned running errands to pick up items for his close friends. He also mentioned the time he went with a friend to pick up his car at the impound after it got towed at 3am. And then when said friend didn't have the money to pay and get his car out, he paid for it himself. He even offered to pick me up from the train station when I got back from Detroit over the holidays when I worried that I might miss the last Metra. Basically he likes helping folks out that are in a jam.

But I'm definitely taking things slow. Midas and I continue to chat with each other every now and then since our hooking up. Who knows where it'll go?

As for Rock, we've been maintaining friendly terms. But I noticed that since prior to New Year' s Eve, we haven't spoken. I know this New Year's Eve was different since the last two New Year's Eve were spent chilling with Rock. This past one I actually took the CTA (which I had no idea was free on that day) to meet Sally at her friend's place. I was the only guy among a group of ladies but it was cool. When 2009 came in, I texted Rock to wish him a Happy New Year. He wished me the same and then I mentioned that I was hanging 'with friends', not specifying who the friends were. It's possible he may have drawn the conclusion that 'with friends' meant a guy. And maybe that's why he's been incognito. And actually he wasn't that far from the truth since later on after the party, I hooked up with Midas.

So Hemingway that's been my year so far. Here's hoping we all have a great 2009. I really need to get back to a regular blogging schedule. Till next time.

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